古今中外深谙“言如其人”,言谈体现着此人的风格,法国评论家布封认为“风格即是本人”。在语言环境的内外变幻日益加速的当代中国,言语风格的重要性日益凸显,人际交往的好坏决定个人成败;而促使个人成长的各个主观因素中,思维的逻辑和语言的表达则占据着自己特殊而重要的位置。语言的工具化逐渐成为共识和习惯,但对其本身实际的习得和运用则在退化,多数的人口语和书面语的表达能力不一致,有人笔下生花唯美如画,但却羞于开口舌笨嘴拙;越来越多的人只有即将在踏上工作岗位祥轿或者在自己的人际沟通技巧在对自身发展产生障碍时才开始有意识地学习和训练自居的言语表达或说口才,而此时,其个人的言语风格却早已形成而且基本固定成型,这很大程度上是我们对“言语和成长”这一对辩证关系认识不及时、不深入的原因。本文对其相互关系和据此所派生的相关实际问题提供了实施例证和理论依据,大胆假设和提出培宴磨了言语风格是主观能动产物、言语风格是个人发展成就中配斗“最短的那块木板”、言语是一个过程等观点,为今后对言语风格和个人成长问题更深入的研究和探索提供了建设性的参考。
All times and in all familiar with, "as it made people", words embody the style of the person, that French critics cloth letters, "that is my style." In the language environment to accelerate the growing internal and external changes in contemporary China, the speech to highlight the growing importance of style and interpersonal quality of the success or failure of individual decision; and to promote personal growth in all the subjective factors, logical thinking and language of expression is to occupy its own Special and important position. The language is becoming a tool of consensus and habits, but for its own use and the actual acquisition in the degradation of the majority of the people of the written and oral communication skills are inconsistent, it was described by flower picturesque aesthetic, but ashamed to open mouth and tongue stupid Zhuo; more and more people are just about to set foot in the workplace or in their interpersonal communication skills in their own obstacles to the development until the beginning of conscious self-learning and training of the words or eloquence, and at this time, their personal The style of speech has already fixed the basic shape and form, to a large extent, this is our "words and growth" of the dialectical relationship is not recognized in a timely manner, not in depth. In this paper, and their mutual relations which are derived from the actual issues related to the implementation of the examples and theoretical basis, and put forward a bold assumption that the style of speech is a product of subjective initiative, style of speech is a personal achievement in the development of "the shortest piece of wood" Speech is a process point of view, and so on, for the future style of speech and personal development issues more in-depth study and exploration provides a constructive reference.
Abstract
All times and in all familiar with, "as it made people", words embody the style of the person, that French critics cloth letters, "that is my style." In the language environment to accelerate the growing internal and external changes in contemporary China, the speech to highlight the growing importance of style and interpersonal quality of the success or failure of individual decision; and to promote personal growth in all the subjective factors, logical thinking and language of expression is to occupy its own Special and important position. The language is becoming a tool of consensus and habits, but for its own use and the actual acquisition in the degradation of the majority of the people of the written and oral communication skills are inconsistent, it was described by flower picturesque aesthetic, but ashamed to open mouth and tongue stupid Zhuo; more and more people are just about to set foot in the workplace or in their interpersonal communication skills in their own obstacles to the development until the beginning of conscious self-learning and training of the words or eloquence, and at this time, their personal The style of speech has already fixed the basic shape and form, to a large extent, this is our "words and growth" of the dialectical relationship is not recognized in a timely manner, not in depth. In this paper, and their mutual relations which are derived from the actual issues related to the implementation of the examples and theoretical basis, and put forward a bold assumption that the style of speech is a product of subjective initiative, style of speech is a personal achievement in the development of "the shortest piece of wood" Speech is a process point of view, and so on, for the future style of speech and personal development issues more in-depth study and exploration provides a constructive reference.