如何做一个好妻子作文

善良——这是一个女人最重要的品质，而且百善孝为先。

贤惠——这是亘古不变的女性美德。

知书达理——这是新时代对妇女与时俱进的要求。

敬重——给他高度的价值感，让他知道他在你心目中的地位，以及他在家庭中的重要性。爱人就是爱人，只要去爱，不要拿来比较，不要老说别人的丈夫如何好，别数落他没出息，对大多数男人来说，赞赏和鼓励比辱骂更能让他有奋斗的力量。对于男人最重要的是尊严，妻子可以在家里抨击丈夫，但不能在公众场合讽刺、嘲笑丈夫。

家庭永远是第一位的——我们固然要对工作负责，要有职业道德，要从工作中得到乐趣，但不要做工作的奴隶，我们工作是为了更快乐地和家人在一起，享受生活，享受生命很重要。

　　如何做一个好妻子(How To Be a Good Wife)

　　This is allegedly actual text from an American home economics text book, circa 1950.

　　Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal on time. This is a way of letting him know you‘ve been thinking about him and concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.Prepare yourself. Take fifteen minutes to rest so that you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.

　　Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gather up school books, toys, paper, etc. Run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order; and it will give you a lift too.Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children‘s hands and faces (if they‘re small), comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

　　Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer, dishwasher, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.Some Don‘ts: Don‘t greet him with problems and complaints. Don‘t complain if he is late for dinner. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest that he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.

　　Listen to him. You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.Make the evening his. Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or other pleasant entertainment. Instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to unwind and relax.

　　The goal! Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax in body and spirit.